I think it’s possible.
But you have to have REALLY felt the pain.
Both of you. It breaks you and you have to rebuild yourself.
Then you can meet on the same level.
Which is key.
No one stronger. Or more in control.
And then it’s not like it was before.
It’s far better.
But not just because someone else has realised how important you are to them.
More that you believe that you are that important.
And you put yourself equal first.